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on “trophy wife”

by Rob Friesel

trophy-wife1Is there really a better, more apt, more semantically appropriate expression in modern English1 than “trophy wife”?  Consider it:

  1. There is (perhaps) a hard-won battle in leading up to the “winning” of the trophy.
  2. But once you have that trophy, all that’s left is the memory of that winning…
  3. …the trophy itself is dead weight on the shelf that needs surprisingly frequent polishing to keep in any kind attractive state.
  4. Certainly when your friends come over and see the trophy, they’re jealous; and consequently, you’re constantly looking over your shoulder wondering which one of them is going to try and sneak off with it.
  5. And let’s face it, after your big win, the talk of the town will move on to whomever wins the next trophy.  And unless you’ve retired from the game, that means you’re itching to win, too.
  1. Say what you will about the term’s potentially ancient origins; say what you will about whether the wife is herself accomplished in anything at all.  We’re talking about popular cultural phenomena, here. []

About Rob Friesel

Software engineer by day, science fiction writer by night. Author of The PhantomJS Cookbook and a short story in Please Do Not Remove. View all posts by Rob Friesel →

2 Responses to on “trophy wife”

John says:

Interesting to read about the ancient origins of a seemingly completely modern phrase.

What brought this musing on?

found_drama says:

@John– I don’t know! I was walking to work the other day and it just dawned on me that I could not poke any substantial holes through the screen of its metaphor.

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